Lesbians In The Limelight: Lola Bastinado

If you’re a fan of hot lipstick lesbians (and, really, what guy isn’t?), you may have noticed that a lot of girls in porn claim to be bisexual in their private lives. On Facebook, for example, many adult actresses state that they’re “interested in men and women.” How much of that is the work of a clever publicist versus genuine preference? Ultimately, unless you’re privy to the girl’s innermost thoughts, there’s no way of telling for sure. Still, as a guy who appreciates girl-girl action, I’d like to know who’s the real deal and who’s a gay-for-pay poser.

To that end, I thought it would be fun to interview self-professed lesbians and bisexuals in the adult industry and get a more in-depth look at their lady-lovin’ experiences. First up, gorgeous Lola Bastinado, founder of HedoOnline.com. She’s not a porn star per se, but a sex columnist, professional dominatrix, and dedicated hedonist who hosts lavish swinger parties.

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Q: Do you prefer men or women? Why?
A: I have an appreciation for both honestly. When it comes to the “why,” that varies. I don’t tend to have a physical “type,” as I find I’m attracted to vibe initially. I would be lying to say that physical attraction isn’t important. Yet I do notice that someone who can capture my interest with wit and humor and certainly make me pause—the gender is irrelevant.

Q: What turns you on most about being with women?
A: I appreciate femme submissive females. I enjoy confident lovers who know what they want yet surrender to the passion of the moment. I love the gentleness of another woman. The female physique is stunning. In many forms.

Q: Approximately how many girls have you had sex with?
A: A lady never tells.

Q: How did the first time come about?
A: It was with a girlfriend I worked with. She came over one evening to hang out and watch movies. Ironically we were watching “Nine and a Half Weeks” and while cuddled up on the couch we began to talk about the movie and our own sexual fantasies. Our usual late Friday night lounging on the couch watching movies turned in to intense descriptive conversations on her burning urge to touch another woman. Our eyes would catch and we’d stare and get stuck in the moment. She got up to go to the bathroom and when she returned, she stood behind me as I sat on the couch and ran her hands from my shoulders, up my neck, then ran her nails along my scalp, bent down and put her face in my hair and said: “I’ve always loved how your hair smells.”

I reached up behind me and grabbed her by the back of the hair, pulled her lips to mine and began kissing her. She let out a salacious sigh and reluctant whimper. When she pulled away she was breathing heavy and with a trembling voice- passionately tells me “I want You!” Naturally I responded: “Fabulous….on your knees.”

Q: How often do you sleep with women?
A: Whenever I want to. lol Realistically, I’m very picky. I enjoy sex. I’ve just learned that for me to enjoy my encounter I must find the right players.

Q: Do you have any particular seduction methods you like to use with women?
A: I don’t have any particular method. Although I’m very attentive to body language. If I find a woman isn’t comfortable, I’m immediately turned off and it’s a no go. Yet if all systems are a go, I will take my time learning what kind of stimuli she prefers. Dirty talk? G-spot? Clitoral? Sensory play? Trust I’ll find it… Oh wait, I jumped straight to sex. lol Alright as far as seduction, I’m a huge flirt. I’m a believer in eye contact. I can read so much when looking into another’s eyes. At that moment I can instantaneously determine if we share a chemistry. I’m a bit straight forward and tend to say what’s on my mind. Either she’s down or not. Not really a method. Just me. Love it or hate it.

Q: Is there a specific type of women you like? Can you describe her?
A: Well, I like all types of women. Yet if I had to describe my ultimate female fantasy it would definitely be a femme female submissive. Her body would be athletic and curvy. Long hair. She would be immaculate. Well groomed with attention to the fine details. Oh yeah, so in simpler terms: she’d be a submissive pulchritudinous whore who enjoys dirty talk. lol

Q: Tell me about the hottest encounter you ever had with other women. Have you ever been with more than one woman at a time?
A: Mmmmm well, let’s see. Yes, I’ve been with four women at once. Each female was comfortable with one another. Each one STUNNING. Talk about sensory overload. From the visual to the sensation nothing I’ve experienced yet has compared. We were all uninhibited. Hands everywhere. Tongues. Toys. Beautiful woman moaning in ecstasy. Nirvana.

Q: What’s your biggest fantasy involving women?
A: I’d love to revisit an all female orgy again….and again…and again….and AGAIN!

Q: What famous girls, in or out of porn, would you like to sleep with?
A: Hmmm…in porn, I’d say Shayla Stylez or Sandra Romaine. Out of porn, that one is a little more difficult for me. Most of the celebs I see look like a boring shag. lol Although if anyone looked like they were fun in bed, it would have been Madonna. Not this year’s vintage Madonna from the half time show, but the wild and crazy Madonna from the 90’s.