You want ways to turn your girl on, but you have no idea where to start? Don’t worry, you’re not alone. Most men are puzzled when trying to turn their woman on. Sure, having good sex is one things. But turning her on so much that she can’t wait to have sex again with you.. Now that’s a different story!
Sometimes when you come out bluntly with “Can we have sex?” the answer will be something along the lines of “Not today, Honey.” Well, we have devised ten full-proof ways to get your woman to drop her panties quicker than startling her while she’s doing the laundry.
And the best thing about turning her on more is she will be more adventurous in the bedroom and will most definitely return the favor if you get what we mean. As the expression goes: Lady in the streets, freak in the sheets.
10. Make Sure You Are Well Groomed
We live in modern times and cleanliness and hygiene gets the girls, not the caveman look.
That’s right, a shower, eyebrow plucking and even trimming your little fellow is what women want. Have you ever noticed you never see a porn star with a bush as big as Macy Gray’s hair? Woman do it so it’s only fair we do — plus, it looks bigger. Try it!
The chances are if you are not caring about your image then no wonder women aren’t getting turned on by you.
9. Taking Charge
Some women like to be dominate in the bedroom, while other love to be submissive.
Rather than ask her what she wants just try things — she will be more than happy to let you know with her body language what she likes and doesn’t. Just take your time and gradually work up to things each time. You will then know what turns not only her but the both of you.
8. Tease Her While You Undress
Ok we won’t lie, if you have a great looking body then this will be much more easier to pull off. But then again, if she is with you the chances are she finds you attractive, right?
Instead of just ripping off all your clothes so you are butt naked in bed, why not put a show on for her and undress in a sexual way? Most of us guys feel uncomfortable doing this, but what do you think male strippers do? There’s a reason they are always invited to Hen Nights.
7. Get Her Drunk
Yeah, we know, all that’s missing from this is some chloroform, right?
No, we don’t mean that. We mean if you both have some drinks together you will be surprised how horney you both can become. What’s then even better is you both will have more confidence to suggest and do things you wouldn’t necessarily do.
6. Start With The Massages
When we talk about massages we aren’t talking about the “Honey, rub my back please, it’s killing me after the day I’ve had”. What we mean is the tease and retreat method.
Naked or lingerie is compulsory. The idea is to start your way at the top: Start with behind the ears and neck as these are sexual places that turn women on. Then slowly work your way down her stomach (skipping the breasts) down to her pelvic region – it’s ok to hang out here for a while. Then work your way back up.
The idea is to stimulate her in a sexual way, but then stop and move back to a typical place to massage her. She will then be begging you to f#ck her!
5. Watch Porn Together
Ok, so you are going to have to tread carefully here as although some girls love watching porn, others will get the idea that’s all you do when she’s at work (and we need to keep that a secret).
The best pay off with watching porn is copying what you watch which not only should turn both of you on, but you don’t know what to expect (just pick one you’ve never see before — a task that’s harder than it sounds, haha) which leads you both to experiment more, which in turn should turn you both on even more.
4. Introduce Toys Into The Bedroom
Many happily married couples use sex toys in the bedroom.
For some guys they feel toys can replace them and this isn’t the case. You need to think: You will be the one using the toy on her. And if she uses it while you are not there it’s just the same as you cleaning your pipes when she isn’t there.
As much as you ask God at night, you won’t wake up with your penis developing the ability to vibrate and rotate in clockwise directions. These toys do amazing things and can really turn women on afterwards. And unlike us men, women gain interest after their first orgasm.
3. Talk Dirty To Her
Women are always going to come under two categories: Girls who like it nasty, and girls who prefer a more romantic approach. But then again, even the most romantic of girl can get turned on if you go into “dirty mode”.
Talking dirty can cover a whole range of vocabulary — with some being more vulgar than the others. Just think of talking dirty as role play where nothing is taken too seriously. The phrase “I’m going to make love to you” won’t have as much of a response as “I’m going to f#ck your brains out”. And if you are the kind of guy that’s shy, your partner will mostly likely be turned on over the fact she never expected it from you.
2. Role Play Or Fantasy
Depending on how long you have been together and how shy your partner is will depend on how easy it is to obtain this information; some girls will come out with it point blank, others will keep it a secret for longer.
It could also be anything from you role playing as a Fire Fighter (cliché we know) to acting out her fantasy of you dressing as her favorite celebrity.
You maybe surprised by the answer, but if it’s her suggestion the chances are she’s been thinking about it for a while, so the pay off will be huge. Oh, and if the words “friend” or “dad” comes up then you are on your own.
1. Going Down On Her
It makes sense that going down on your female companion is going to get her turn on as it’s going to get her off, right? Well yes, but just because you can stimulate the clitoris enough to make her orgasm doesn’t mean you did a great job at turning her on.
The key is to experiment with certain tongue patterns/movements and finger placements/incisions — there isn’t a one rule fits all girls here. You need to take note on her body language — does she twitch her leg. And her speech — some women will moan more when you do certain things, while others will tell you when it feels good.
Not all females are vocal when you are going down, but don’t allow this to put you off. Her body language and subtle hits are what you need to look out for if so.
A big thanks to the guys at UltimateTop10s, who are kind enough to compile top 10 lists like this one for you. Appreciate it, guys!
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